It is impossible to think that you should not see each other because you made this decision. That does not happen or it only happens in the movies. As they say, the world is a handkerchief.
There are days when a woman looks worse and you should know that she is depressed, that she draws dark circles on the ground and that she almost walks around in her pajamas. Also, when she drinks a cup of hot chocolate, she can see her ex in there.
Even if you think you will never meet someone again, it is best not to deny this idea forever. You should always be prepared for a possible relationship, don’t you think? This way, you can start over.
Do not rely on others, as this only has to do with you. You see, a person has arranged a blind date on the best laid plans and everything is going swimmingly until the ex sees his ex wife in someone else’s car.
Can you imagine seeing her in someone else’s car means she does not really know how to break up and there is no break. The man can pretend he does not see anything or even talk more enthusiastically, but when she gets home she wants to kiss him and there it goes.
She cannot start a relationsip, she needs time. She is definitely not ready to start a new relationship yet, as she misses her ex like crazy.
There are days when she feels better and she believes that she has already overcome everything, so she goes to dinner with her friends in an area where her ex would never go and to a nightclub that she is not even sure she likes. Suddenly, she hears his voice.
She looks up and the first thing she sees is him holding hands with his new girlfriend. Although she is pretty sure she is not prettier than her or that she does not love him as much, she comes home crying. The next day, she wastes her time in shops, on a shopping day, she buys what she does not need and many things she never uses. Of course, her emotional crisis is completed by the economic one. Therefore, never go shopping after a breakup!
This is when you realize who your true friends are. You may have a friend who lives somewhere far away and they find out about the break and you send them an e-mail ten pages long telling them how wonderful it was and how this has been the hardest hit in your life and how it all vanished.
Another friend, who is traveling to Guadalajara, calls as soon as they know and you talk on the phone for almost an hour. They have been your friend for a lifetime, but you have not seen each other for three years, so they call. Well, the family is also very important. Sometimes, the family is more than delighted with the break because they don’t like the ex.
The most important thing is to remember that the pain passes, even if, right now, these thoughts make you all cloudy and obsessive and you spend too much time thinking about him, about the relationship and all that. In addition, this experience will serve you for the best because these things make you stronger.
You will see that you keep asking yourself one question after a while: “Why is it that I suffered so much because of that breakup?”
Surely, the man of your life is just around the corner, a man who is actually a man in every sense of the word and who is completely devoted to you. Remember that you have to kiss many frogs before you find your Prince Charming...
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