Here is the barometer of your relationship.
I'm tired!
The following are not exhaustive. They reflect unhappiness in marriage, but they are crucial if they are repeated several times.
- You cannot concentrate on your work;
- You begin to criticize their personality;
- Your criticism turns into contempt, such as: "the other is really a failure,
they are good for nothing ....;"
- The other does not respond to anything, including your insults. They
fold up completely;
- You compete for sleeping on the couch;
- You wonder how you fell in love in the first place;
- You become hypersensitive: sweating, heart rate higher than average
tremor (when you get excited), attacks of crying ...;
- You refuse to apologize;
- Their attempts at reconciliation are futile;
- When you think about your marriage, you see only the negative aspects;
- The details of everyday life take on a disproportionate importance;
- Despite your legendary loyalty, you think about deceiving the other ...;
- You do not talk any more. Communication with others is a concept you do not understand;
- Their jokes, which have not yet changed in 20 years, exasperate you;
- You solve your problems without worrying about their opinion. Besides, the other responds the same way
as you;
- You look in the mirror more and more often to see if you are still drinking physically; and
- You no longer live "together". If the other wants dinner, they would go alone. If you have a party with friends: ditto.
In short, you have a different life from that of another. You are married ... but this is just your status.
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