At this stage of the game, when any thinking person knows and understands that living with someone may be a panacea, there may be no limits, rules and sets of guidelines. Those who are suspected of living together can sometimes get involved in a kind of mortal combat. However, there is usually no trauma and many end up sleeping with each other.
We know everyone has their unconditional life and that we shall be unconditional with our children, as it is the law of life and so on, but we have a problem with our parents when we become daughters-in-law, sons-in-law and extended family.
This is also the case when our parents become grandparents. Yes, everything turns out to be quite complicated as we go through life and we add events to our life and there are some logical roles we have to play.
Our roles can change from one moment to another: we can be celebrities, we can be the best sportsmen of the last year, we can be so many things, but we have to take each of them separately.
We have to understand that everything needs to be taken step-by-step and that there are certain things which require more training than others. You cannot just burn Troy every day and you do not have to spend so much time learning how to use the toilet as with learning how to mend a car.
Another thing that shows the downs of coexistence is that you have things go very bad whe you break up and no one takes the ending separately or for real, no matter what the reasons are.
Then, you should try to reach an optimal distance from each other. The porcupines are in this situation, as they find a way to be cornered in the same place, all together.
The thing is that this is what human beings should do, too, and not kill each other separately and making it n times more difficult that it already is because of the situation itself.
For example, there is a time when parents want to stop sharing the nuptial bed and change the entire room so that they can sleep in completely separate single beds.
Of course, they may have wanted to revive the old times from time-to-time, but there is also a time when only God decides that.
Some women believe that sleeping in separate beds seems like sacrilege. However, they only think that until they grow and have a husband. In the marital bed, boxing scenes can be recreated when asleep, so you have to dream of pillows and use them as a protector shield.
Women usually become fed up with not sleeping for nights in a row and with not knowing what to do, so they find other solutions, such as sleeping in separate beds. Everything seems to go very well in the beginning. But after learning the Kamasutra and getting to know the other too well, there are times when you need to take this step.
You have to see if they can change and if they are gentlemen. If they are, they can stop all this and you can return to sleeping together in the same bed.
So the sequence is more or less like this: take care of him, make him understood after a few seconds of speaking what seems to be Armenian for him and this is was happens: you wake up angry in the middle of the night, you apologize and try to find a way to cover all those missing chapters from the famous book on secret sex.
As you continue collecting years, that feeling grows and you know that more and more people adhere to the idea of separate beds and never question the whys with this situation. But the difficulty of cohabitation does not only stand in the assets belonging to the partners or in uneven opinions or reactions.
Wars of frictions arise between parents, children, siblings, pets and other herbs, including mosquitoes and cockroaches, but they go directly to the fauna and there is the daily combat with guerrillas and you kill bugs with your bear hand, completely rejecting any form of coexistence.
The solution is very simply: either them or us on the property. Under no circumstances can we all live together under the same roof. Coexistence walks complicating things even among friends, who supposedly chose each other.
Proof of this is that when a friend moves in with you, you fight as a natural consequence of the closeness of your partner’s limits and yours as well. The fact that both your children and theirs live there together can cause difficulties.
The conclusion is challenging: Do not do something because another does it, because it's going to hurt. Take note: You do it for you to see and understand what it feels like. You do it because it is a challenge and you want to stand up to it.
She knows you love cola and that soft drinks are one of your addictions, so she lets me know how bad she feels about it. You may think: “Good, the gowns do not care, so can I support my habit without gas?”, but you will see that it is not all about that.
She may be angry with your precious treasure of 2 liters of liquid poured in the toilet. Satisfied, she claps her palms thus indicating that the matter is over and walks around with the triumphant look, enjoying your treacherous defeat.
Things are not about that. You don’t have to get angry with the other because they have certain pleasures, but you have to accept them and see where they lead you.
That should break your angry and stubborn mule packed silence. If the thing is too serious, you can no longer go to sleep with your enemy, the next chapter of coexistence.
Of course, things do not improve among siblings. In fact, they tend to be worse. Each domestic task is a challenge to all that ends in an absolute monarchy, to the tune playing: “I'm in charge in this house and you have to do what I say”.
Now, you have completed all the previous discussion: that is to explain to the two lunatics who gave you life that they have every right in the world to live in a clean environment and that they contribute to exactly the opposite situation and the opposite outcome.
Go forth spreading crumbs, throwing objects and scattering your things.
Another thing that makes it much easier to live with them is that every day, they insist that a human being worthy of the name bathes, combs their hair and cleans their teeth, at least.
Other concerns able to shake the peace of the home an d other questions of rigor would be:
Older sister: “Why do I have to do it?”
Mother: “Because you're the biggest,”
And teen-sister: "Do you really need to grumble for half an hour before giving me the joy of meeting my order?"
Younger brother: "And I am tiny and I am not sabotaging you. The chick is retarded, as he calls his sister. By the way, the other one communicates that all she wants to be when she grows up is a lawyer."
These are some phrases that would delight a psychologist ready to offer a family couch.
“Hey, stupid. Send your sister to me.”
Such a line leads to a number of others replies, which are meant to find all kind sof excuses to get away with it or to make it clear that there is a superior sibling and an inferior one.
However, specialists conclude that when the house is in order, in silence, like when we ask where we all are and we're usually lacking something, everything goes very well and there is harmony and peace.
Some homes lack the buzzes made by the children, who try to animate the home, but usually get on everyone’s nerves at a certain point. However, the most important thing to know about the atmosphere in a home is that it is all subjected to love and love can turn chaos into order, which is what usually happens in the house, too.
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