Lust or love?

The loss of desire is something that many women talk about with their girlfriends. Many will say that the desire is gone, and that it's difficult to get a taste.  They have their minds elsewhere and have more desire to stick to their lover than to love them.

When we speak of "loss of desire" or "lack of desire," people tend to mix everything. Take the time to ask: Is the frequency of our relationship which decreases due to the fact that there was no real sexual desire initially, but rather a desire to love?

What is the difference?

Sexual desire is reflected by a physical sensation of warmth and butterflies in the abdomen and not by a desire for penetration or lubrication, which is clearly felt in the genital area.

The sexual desire is most often described by the desire to get closer to each other. Women will usually express this desire by holding the other in their arms. They will often say they want to stick close to their partner, but their desire is to make love.

What kind of desire do I have?

Once an understanding of how you live your desire, you may be able to realize that your partner is not or has never been sexual. It may be that you make love less often than at the beginning of your relationship because your desire of reconciliation is filled with affection.

Is it possible to develop sexual desire?

It is possible to develop sexual desire. Notice if you feel the heat in your belly. For some women, being aware that they had little contact with their bellies leads them to feeling the best. You can also raise awareness of genital sensations when you approach your partner. When you kiss, press your stomach against your partner's in order to feel the sensation of heat that may arise. You can also begin to move your pelvis to stimulate the sensations in your body instead of being polarized in emotions. When integrating the last movement of the pelvis during reconciliations, they feed on sexual desire.

If you feel sexual desire occasionally take time to see in what contexts your desire awakens and what you can feel better. Then follow this track and have a lot of fun!