Ex-wife and "man-eater"
Currently, more women choose to have a second or a third chance to surprise their environment and themselves with their courage, which is hidden deep inside the female.
“A woman who has already separated once or more times knows exactly what she wants from her life or, better yet, she knows exactly what she does not want. If she has a companion with whom she is sexually unsatisfied, she just tries to get her satisfaction and therefore, she educates the man from the sexual point of view. At first, the fear of him repeating what he has done is enormous painful, but it is an exercise that teaches the woman to work on her self-esteem”, says sexologist Patricia Dappitt from Argentina.
The conquest is not easy. “There is a wolf hiding and waiting for the opportune moment to strike inside every woman. The woman who has lived for many years marked by a bad experience will need to leave the arena at some point in her life, showing her claws in a good way and seducing her man. She can begin a new life full of achievements and discoveries,” says the Spanish sexologist Javier López Severino, who has lectured on women's sexual behavior when left alone and on ways to reverse an unsatisfying sexual life.
The specialist is writing a book on the sexual stages that a woman experiences and the changes that consolidate and transform her over time. The first clue is perceived when there is a desire to change any physical aspect, which is not comfortable. The important thing is not to stay at that level and continue investigating other ways of improvement.
The reconstruction of the self is one of the fundamental conditions for revival. There is nothing more seductive than a woman who loves and respects herself and when this state is achieved, the successful transformation is amazing because it is a full revival and it is reflected”, indicates Dappitt.
Separated woman looking for sex...
The sexual life is usually another factor that begins to take shape differently in the female world after a separation. However, we must bear in mind that not everything changes overnight.
“There is a belief that a person who returns to being alone has endless possibilities to exercise their sexuality, but this is not absolutely accurate. Nor is it true that independence will magically give the person the power to pursue Hollywood.
Surely, the first opportunity to have a sexual encounter after long years of living with another partner is not very positive, the woman has no orgasm and the man has no erection and that has nothing to do with seduction as it modifies and is rediscovered all the time”, says López Severino.
Sex after a withdrawal will depend on how the sexuality was during that past relationship.
“If the link was very satisfactory, finding another matching partner will be a complex process and this relates to the degree of trust and intimacy that was built up during the years of coexistence and to the understanding between the two”, says Dappitt.
If you have had more choice but to go separate ways, the marital past should serve to enrich each individual. If life together turned out to be poor, it is possible to find sexual enjoyment in many places, trying to find another experience.
Times have changed especially for women, who no longer get bored living with a husband who does not bring pleasure to their daily life.
Secrets of seduction of separated women
- Decorate the venue attractively;
- Maintain a pleasant and intelligent conversation that arouses mutual attraction;
- The image must be kept personal, but natural and not exaggerated. Wanting to please too much can be
counterproductive; and
- Massage helps with creating a suitable climate. Feeling relaxed, confident and eroticized will help.
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